Hello! My name is Marcus.
My passion is helping break others free from pornography, unwanted sexual behavior, and the negative mindsets that limit us from being our best selves.
Your Story Matters!
Our past impacts the choices we make in the present, often without our knowing it. That’s why we work between the covers of your story to find events and process them in a safe environment with compassion and curiosity. The things said against us and the choices of our past don’t need to define our future. We can work together to change the narrative of your story and help you become the best person that you can be.
What People Are Saying About Marcus and Between The Covers Coaching
Names are abbreviated to protect the confidentiality of clients
“If you are looking for someone who can touch your soul and really get into your story, Marcus is your coach. He was able to execute the intricacies of my story as though he was wielding a sword.” -B. R.
"Marcus was able to walk with me and encourage me on this journey. I finally felt like I had support rather than doing this on my own. Even when I did relapse and I would call Marcus, he always encouraged me and helped me process the unwanted sexual behavior." -R. H.
“I met Marcus after a disappointing experience with a prior life coach. I connected with him immediately. Marcus is warm and deeply empathetic. He is keenly perceptive. He helped me connect with the wounding from my trauma at a very personal emotional level. He is humble and honest. He isn’t offended by any pushback to his advice. Marcus has a heart of gold. Highly recommended!” -M. R.
“Desiring to go deeper into "my stuff" (woundedness), I asked Marcus to be my coach. He was so helpful to me and I feel so grateful for the growth I experienced. I always felt Marcus was fully present to me, sincerely caring about me and my growth as a man, husband and father. His gentle and wonderful sense of humor, tenacity and optimism were matched by his compassion, gently probing questions and very helpful insights. These really encouraged me to be more aware of myself and my relationships and contributed to making our times together so much more productive and fruitful. Marcus was a wonderful gift in my life at just the right time... He's the real deal.” -G.L.
“In my time working with Marcus, I grew in my understanding of my triggers, desires, and challenges. I dug deeper into dynamics I saw play out in my family of origin as well as the family within myself (internal family systems). While I had gone through counseling before, Marcus’ empathy and familiarity with my struggle helped me grow further in curiosity, confidence, and care for myself and my loved ones.” -T.L.
“My time with Marcus was unique. I had dealt with other counselors and therapists who were at both extremes. Some were so spiteful and rude to me that I felt like I was talking to someone directly impacted by my sexual addiction, while others were so nice and gentle with me that I felt like I was being coddled and my behavior was being excused. Marcus found a happy medium, holding me accountable for admitting my mistakes and working through my issues, while at the same time being gentle enough with me that I felt supported and also like I had someone I could confide in when I so desperately needed. it. My time with Marcus meat my expectations 1,000%.” -D.M.
“I was immediately impressed with Marcus’ ability to listen to people, his analyses and his replies to people. I felt like he was someone I could be comfortable with in talking about some sensitive issues from my past. In the time we worked together Marcus gave me some wonderful insights and new ways of looking at things. He has great sensitivity and I feel I’ve made tremendous progress over the last year and am now ready to tackle the level of my recovery. All in all, I would highly recommend Marcus Spaur for coaching help.” -R.S.
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